No matter what background, nationality, race or any other labels you identify yourself with, everyone desires to create a life beyond the ordinary. Whether it is your personal relationship, professional career, social life, or just relationship with yourself, your innate desire is to become better than what you did and better than what you do. That’s living beyond the ordinary!
Millennial Author and International Speaker Kit Gupta speaks to audiences around the world sharing the “how-to” strategies to go beyond living the ordinary life in relationship, career and the society.
Don’t miss this free public event for a talk with the author and an open-mic conversation.
Participating audience will receive a free paperback copy of Break The Ordinary—Finding Success in Personal, Professional and Social Life.
After success in the U.S., iExcel Events comes to Ireland to help you find a state that everyone wishes for—happiness. This event takes you beyond a quintessential motivational seminar and focuses on building practical strategies to create transformation. In this highly interactive event you will learn the “how-to” ways to get to a state of happiness by going beyond motivation and achieve it before getting “success.”
Millennial Author, Speaker and American entrepreneur Kit Gupta brings an opportunity for you to learn the methodologies to transform your relationship, profession and social life. Kit helps audiences around the world to create transformation by building strategies and not through a motivational talk. The energy and interaction at his speaking events gives the audience the momentum they have been longing for to achieve happiness. If you desire to transform in 2017, iExcel Event experience is a must for you!
Build your own unique strategy by using a universal principle implemented in corporations around the world to improve their metrics. You can use the same strategy in your personal relationships, or professional career to create change and accomplish whatever you desire.
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The desire to want or not want change in profession and personal life is more than wanting something different. Creating an understanding of the reasons that drive you to desire change is the fundamental step most commonly missed when looking for something different in profession and relationships.
Kit Gupta and iExcel Events by IE SIGMA® share the reason why individuals want, or not want change in their life.
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The news about my boss, Andy, giving his two-week notice spread like wild fire in the department. Everyone who reported to him was apprehensive about what the next guy was going to be like.
Is the new guy going to be better or worse than Andy? Everybody was concerned about how this change would affect them, including other managers that worked with Andy.
Weeks later after Andy was gone, as I was working on the production floor, one of the technicians came up to me and said, “So I heard you have a new boss now.”
“Do I?” I inspected some plastic parts coming off a molding machine.
“You didn’t get the news yet? You and I will both be working for Shawn now,” he said as he scrunched up his face in discontent.
“Is is that bad?” I inquired.
“I don’t know how much you’ve worked with him, but he doesn’t deserve to be a manager,” he added, “The stars were lined up just right for him and the timing of it was right; that’s the only reason why he got to become a manager.”
Years later, I asked my audience at a speaking event: if they believed that everything, every single thing that they have in their life was because of their action. Some of them agreed, others did not.
Look at the above scenario. Andy made a clear conscious decision to quit and move somewhere else. So Andy created what he wanted through his action. However, Andy’s action also resulted in creating a vacant spot in the department. It’ll be foolish to say that Shawn intended that.
Did Shawn get the position because of his own action?
Some might argue that just like Andy, Shawn made a conscious decision of taking the position, so he created what he wanted through his action. Yes. But one intricate component of this scenario is that the decision made by one person (Andy) impacted what the other person (Shawn) got. That is referred to as destiny by some and opportunity by others.
Every one of us experiences this phenomenon in our personal relationships or professional careers at some point of time in our life. That relationship that you so deeply desired with someone, but it never worked out. The job or career that you so yearned for, but you ultimately ended up doing something that you had never dreamed of. Perhaps there is a component that we don’t have a control over: people and events both, which changes what we end up with.
No matter what you call it: destiny or opportunity, taking action is what ultimately makes destiny or opportunity a reality. Whether the result in what you expected or not—take action.
Even though Millennials are dominating the workforce, they don’t necessarily like their jobs. That’s where Kit Gupta and iExcel Events come in. Coming from a background in engineering, Kit left a successful and growing career and followed his passion.
Kit now works with young professionals on how to find the job that best suits them. Kit says, “the goal is to find a job where you feel that is what you’re passionate about; where you feel fulfilled. Where every single day when you go in from 8-5 or 9-5, you feel that is where you belong.”
First, Kit suggests knowing yourself. Know what your strengths and weaknesses are and which job field you’d prefer to be in. Then, you should focus on three core principles:
-Rewire your brain
-Think beyond profits
-Live here, now
So, if you’re looking for a career change, check out Kit Gupta and iExcel Events.
Waiting at the light for over ten minutes, I heard the cab driver say, “We still have plenty of time to get to the airport, sir. We don’t have to rush. There is no point rushing for anything in life.”
“True,” I replied to him. Finally we were able to move past the light and onto the highway. The cab driver continued to talk about his life back home: his kids, wife and rest of his family. “The only reason I am here is for money,” he said, “If I had a choice I would never live in a crowded city like Delhi with so many people. He told me, that despite of having everything back home he still has to work here so he can earn more. “There are more jobs here and more money,” he said.
“Can I ask you a question?” I said. “Sure, ask anything you’d like,” the cab driver replied.
“What do you think is the real meaning of life? Why do you think everyone comes here?” I asked. With reverence, he said, “Sir, according to me the meaning of life is very simple. We are here to do good things for the world. We come here to experience, have babies, give our kids a good education; inculcate virtues in their life so they can also do well for the world and pass it on to their kids. I am Muslim and believe that this is what God’s message is for me. That is the only meaning of life and nothing else.” Quietly and patiently I heard every word.
While he was elaborating on the points, some of which were reiterating the earlier ones, I reflected upon the answer to the same question I asked to another cab drive during my day trip to Mumbai exactly one week ago. “Sir, I think there is no meaning to life. The reason why we all come here is because we have are supposed live. You come in world, live, eat, experience, enjoy and die. That is the meaning of life and nothing else,” is what he explained.
An hour later, we made it safely through the crowded streets of Delhi, the cab driver pulled close to the curb of the departures and said “If I would have said, something that you did not like, I would like to apologize. I hope I did not say anything to hurt you.” I believe, because I was sitting quietly in the back seat most of the time listening to him talk, he thought I was offended. “No, I really liked hearing your point of view. There is no right or wrong; it just is.” I shook hands with him and we parted.
Reminiscing, the conversation with both the cab drivers, I realized that they both used the word ‘nothing’ in their explanations. Perhaps there is really no meaning, no specific purpose to life for everyone who is here. The true meaning, true purpose is whatever we make it. Two years ago, I talked about definition of success in my studio recording: “If there are seven billion of more people on this earth, there are seven billion or more definitions of success.”
So how can the purpose of life for each one of us be the same? Even though both the cab drivers live in the same country and do the same thing for living, they seem to think differently about why we are here.
Perhaps, the page titled “My Purpose” for everyone who comes here is a blank page. We decide and make what that purpose would be. If it is to become an engineer, doctor, lawyer, dancer, cook, painter, musician, photographer, husband, parent or whatever else it might be, we write it all when we are here. The meaning of life or the purpose of our life becomes whatever we want to make it. And we create this purpose with only one thing—experience.
Ever since I can remember, I never missed a day without performing my morning ritual. I am awake; but I still keep my eyes closed, and I feel like staying in bed. I am physically still, but my mind is already in action—filled with thoughts. Sometimes I try to decode my dreams and make sense of it. But my thoughts don’t’ stop there. “What time is the meeting with the media reporter today? I will take my notes I wrote from last week to make sure I can answer the questions effectively. Do I have my white shirt and gray pants cleaned? We have not done laundry in the last four weeks. I will do that over the weekend. What else was I supposed to do over the weekend? I need to take Sunny (my dog) for his eye check-up. Do I still have his eye medication? I need to check that.” And then thoughts that have no connection with my previous thoughts. “I should appreciate everything I have, and not always want something more. I get food to eat, I am healthy, I help both our parents, my wife is very supportive, and everything is just fine. I should complain less. But I don’t complain too much, do I? I should get up and get ready now.”
Our morning rituals might not be identical but they exist for most of us. Sometimes, we feel there is so much that we have to accomplish, at work, with kids, with the family, in school, cook, clean, and the list is longer some days and shorter on others. Independent of our culture, race or background we are all here to accomplish. Every one of us has that to-do list for the day. Whether you go to school, stay at-home, work for someone, run a business or are retired, whether you are married, single or divorced as long as we are here and alive, we are all on this journey to accomplish—accomplish tasks.
Most of us like to know what is on our plate for the day, no one likes surprises. Why? Because most of us like to be prepared for things. If we have to execute a task at the last minute, we get uncomfortable. Why? Because of the unknowns. “If I get called for a last minute meeting or training at work on my day off, will I make it there on-time? Do I have to rush through the traffic?” No one likes unknowns because they bring fear along with them. Fear of not accomplishing the task.
However, being present in what you are doing even when the results are obscure, increases the probability of accomplishing the task successfully. If you get called at work at the last minute and all you have is questions and fear about not making it there on-time, or begrudging why you got called on your day-off, you have set the stage for a rough day for yourself.
Live here now is a practice shared at iexcelevents by IE Sigma® that could help you reduce or eliminate the fear brought from the unknowns we experience in our relationships, career or any other domain in life, and help create transformation for excellence. Implementing a practice to focus your attention on the task you are performing, can transform you, so you can enjoy even the unknowns that come your way in this journey we call life.
It’s an age old question: How can you get happiness from nothing? We buy a new car, a car we wanted since the first time we saw someone else driving it on the road, we feel happy. If we find a new job, a job that benefits us financially, we feel happy. It is not just the tangibles that give us this sense of fulfillment but also when we receive intangibles. If we receive compliments about the car we drive or when our boss or co-workers commend us for our accomplishments, our confidence is boosted- we feel worthy! If our partner appreciates us for the things we do with them or for them, we don’t hesitate to mention the joy and contentment we feel to our friends when having a relationship talk. Whether it is a tangible asset like a car, a job, a house, a life-partner, or an intangible like compliments, appreciation or love- we believe that happiness is achieved by giving and receiving.
Not only we have been told that if we give happiness to others we will be happy, but many of us have seen our parents, families and friends becoming happy or making others happy by making a trade of a tangible or an intangible asset. Independent of our race, religion, or nationality, we observe this phenomenon occurring at every level. Nations trade commodities for economic growth and peace, so we use this as a local phenomenon in our personal, professional and social lives.
But, what if our fulfillment and happiness was independent of what we receive or give others. What if we can wake up everyday full of contentment regardless of what we experienced at work. Independent of the amount financial losses in stock, independent of the loss of the promotion we were hoping for, for years. What if our fulfillment was not hinged upon any tangible or intangible. What would it take to create such a life at an individual level? What would we need to change about ourselves to create such a transformation?
Working on building a strategy to create a life of excellence that is independent of what we give or receive, starts with creating a deeper understanding of ourselves. Fulfillment in our personal, professional and social domains is achieved when we rewire the brain, think beyond profits and live here now. As we start building unique strategies that fit in the model of our life, strategies that are unique to us, that’s when we knowe we are on a path to creating happiness from no-thing.
Learn more about the work of Engineer-turned-Entrepreneur Kit Gupta and IE Sigma® -a non profit that takes you beyond science, technology, religion, and spirituality and works with individuals around the world to transform their personal, professional and social domains. Attend iexcelevents in a city near you to build strategies for excellence to create transformation in your life.